I don't think having a malay girlfriend is a thing to be ashamed of...besides, it's not really true in my case anyway. I've heard of more 'weird' combinations of cross-cultural relationship, like a jap guy with an indian lady.
I'm not a hostile kind of person...You would even find it hard to get me angry. It's not me to chase away people just like that. Unless this kind of thing turns real, then i'll put a stop to it. But before that, i just treat it as fun name-calling game.
There's a saying which goes:
Love knows no boundaries.
Ok, maybe for me, i do have some boundaries in choosing my partner, but it's not much really.
I don't mind being called anything that's mushy(words like 'darling' or 'baby') by a girl, but i do mind if it's a guy. I
wouldn't mind even if it's holding hands...that is if it's for a purpose,like teaching someone to ice-skate or roller-blade.
I know
i'm saying it as if i'm a flirt.
But i really don't like being mistaken as a gay, that's why.....
I can guess
Xhristy's worries about having a cross-cultural relationship... Most probably is the countless stares one will get from other people.
Imagine, you and your love holding hands while walking down a crowded street. Can you totally ignore all the stares you get from other people? The
countless pairs of eyes staring at you and your love all the while both of you are walking, as if both of you are aliens from some other galaxy light years away.
For a very shy person, this kind of situation would make that face look like as if it had just been smeared with cherry-flavoured jam.
But having such a relationship also has it's good points too. For instance, the relationship will be more fun-filled, right?
Besides the normal
everyday sweet-nothings and sharing of
special moments, the couple would also have fun discovering about each other's culture. Every culture has its own do's and dont's, and it would only be right to know them since he/she is your partner. Ok, if any of youdon't understand this part, then forget about it.
The time that a cross-cultural couple take to get to know each other is more compared to an can-be-seen-on-streets-everyday kind of couple. And thus...taddah!~
A more stable and long-lasting relationship.
There's pros and cons to everything and everybody, and that means no one and nothing is perfect.
Let's try to get along shall we??
Thy Owner reviewed his life at 11:15 PM
